Fresh and clean

Haven't exactly touched a blog in years so today, thanks to my friend, I've decided to give this another go and see how it is this time round :)
Firstly, let me introduce myself.
I'm a 25 year old lesbian residing in South Africa who also happens to be asian.
Life as an Asian lesbian is difficult. Who am I kidding. Life as a lesbian is difficult. Period. Just thought putting in 'Asian' might sound cooler. hmmf.. sounds better in my head than being said.
So my purpose of this blog is to bring whoever reads this a view on the everyday lesbian life, the drama, the mental frame and the fun we get up to, and that we're not just some fantasy of a very typical male.

So how would one define the term Lesbian?
Les·bi·an

   /ˈlɛzbiən/ Show Sp[lez-bee-uhn] Show IPA

–adjective

1.of or pertaining to Lesbos.

2.( usually lowercase ) of, pertaining to, or characteristic of female homosexuality.

3.( usually lowercase ) erotic; sensual.

–noun

4.an inhabitant of Lesbos.

5.( usually lowercase ) a female homosexual.

 

...What!??!?!.. Wait.... the word lesbos exist? An inhabitant of lesbos?!?!?!  the dictionary definition is as good as looking at urbandictionary.com or asking a 2 yr old what she thinks of the theory of Newton.

I guess according to their third definition, even a male could be lesbian, i mean, being all erotic and sensual. Why not? Many men claim to be lesbians purely for the fact that "oh my god, I'm a lesbian too and i'm trapped in a mans body!!" no sir, you are just clearly confused and perhaps need a sex change. 

I can't even continue with this post. The definition has left me so distraught. I can't even. need to compose myself before I punch the website in the ovaries.